COACHING

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Many of us (including Paula) have shifted our focus from what made sense when we first began our career search, to what fits better today. Exploring who you are and what you want to do may seem intimidating. The right support can liberate you from feeling stuck into feeling free.

Nobody gets married planning to get divorced. But let’s face it, as charming as the notion of “happily ever after” may seem, not all relationships are meant to last forever. Whatever brought you here, this is where you are now. It’s time for acceptance. And though you may not have realized it when you initially decided to split, if you have children with someone, you are bound to that other parent forever. 

The choice is yours. You can put your children’s well-being first and make decisions together that will help them form a healthy relationship with themselves as they grow and mature into well-adjusted adults. Or, you can be a jerk. You decide. By the way, if you go the jerk route, it’s your kids who will bear the brunt of that trauma.